Patrick and I went to school together over 20 years ago and, after bumping in to each other at a wedding (I was shooting), he asked me to do a shoot with him and his gorgeous family.  Bizarrely, both of us have sons named Ben and while his Ben still has beautiful long hair, ours too had long hair till he was 4.  We shot in a very quite spot (quiet on a Sunday afternoon at least) near Durban Harbour mouth.  I think you will agree that not only is it a great location, the light was absolutely pulling out all the stops for us.